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concept of suicide can be seen in different rates depending on
the communities and it should not be accepted only as a
psychiatric disorder due to its complicated moral,
social-economic and cultural aspects.
The
attempts for committing suicide are seen mostly in developed
comunities with a high standard of
social and economic conditions and it is seen 3-4 times
more in males in comparison with the females.
It
is also very interesting that most of the cases of suicide
correspond to the time of puberty.
It makes itself felt under conditions where the healthy thinking
becoems very
limited.
Under these conditions the individual does not know how to
direct himself.
He can do very crazy things and all of
a sudden
decides to take a step forward for death.
We can state the cases where there is a high risk of
suicide as depression, old age,
psychological and organic disorders, schizophrenia, manic
depression, alcoholism and personality disorders.
We
can define the act of committing suicide as the person opening
his whole self to
his death which he sees as an objective or a tool and this is
done through his own overwhelming desire.
Those who prefer death to life commit suicide, because they
think that life is no more worth living.
In any society thousands of people cannot solve their physical
and psychological problems and cannot take the curve on the road
of life and choose
to give an end to their lives. However, while doing so they
cannot see how the ones they’ve left behind become miserable.
We
can see that this unfortunate event caused by
repeated factors that
damage the
individual’s honour, and insult him plants the seeds for lots
of chronic
disasters of the
future.
It
would be an exaggeration to say that the one who has committed
suicide was thinking and behaving as a normal person before
this.
Mostly, before the act of suicide
it can be observed that the person may be violent or unusally
calm…
The feelings of affection
do not reach this dimension, all the positive influences become
useless and the death tours around comfortably. So, when such a
dimension will grasp the person in loneliness, it will knock him
down, shape whatever it wants and this would be enough for those
weak people who cannot resist to give an end to their lives.
The reasons that cause the individual to commit suicide could be
their own problems as wells the motivation given by the
communities who want to find a valid reason for their ideas
which they think are right.
I think we have all
gone through such examples.
The interesting point is that in rich societies with a
high standard of living, the individuals have reached the
point of satisfaction; there is nothing with which
they can make themselves busy
or due to their complexes and due to the fact that they
do not have a feeling of faith,
belief they fall
into emptiness and consider the suicide as something that cannot
be avoided.
The most concrete examples of this can be seen in Japan. In this
most developed country of the world there are lots of
suicides. It looks as if the Japanese society is giving a
premium for suicide at the end of any unsuccessful attempt. In this country
suicide is a normal, usual event to which the people have
become used to. The
Japanese people accept the suicide as a reason and they find in
themselves the power to do this which is really difficult to
understand.
When
we look at the statistics we can see that in the recent years
the events of suicide
have increased considerably in the recent years. At the beginning of the 1980’s the number of people who
have committed suicide was
around fifteen thousand, however in 1990 it has become more than
twenty thousand. According
to the statistics of the year 2000, it is over thirty thousand.
The reasons of this
act is explained by the Japanese people. Along with making use
of the blessings of the
technology that has reached incredible dimensions,
the exteremely high level of stress in case of
being unsuccessful causes the individual to look for
happiness and the means of
saving themselves in some other place. For example,
following the path of the great sufi Mawlana.
Every year lots of Japanese
people come to the celebrations held in Konya in the memory of
Mawlana. This is a very good indicator for what we have
said before.
This
event is very interesting from the point of showing that
reaching the welfare point does not mean everything.
Towards the end of life the attempt to commit suicide may show itself
by any reason and under conditions which are not natural.
This is defined as
something negative as it deprives the individual from the
ability of normal
thinking.
Such horrifying events are not accepted and approved by the
society.
In mysticism too there isn’t any compromise for attempts of
suicide.
Those who know the meaning of
the name Allah and what the concept of
sin means, never
think about suicide.
Hz.Mohammad (s.a.v) considers suicide as very great action which
cannot be forgiven and he places lots of importance on this.
In a hadith regarding this subject he says:
-The one who has committes suicide by jumping from a high place
will be punished in hell and he will be thrown into fire from
high places eternally.
The one who dies because of drinking the poison will be punished
and he will drink poison in hell till eternity.
If a person kills himself by using a piece of iron will go to
hell with that piece of iron and will stick that iron rod into the different parts of his body
eternally. This will be his punishment.
Also,
the Koran stops the attempts for suicide by saying ‘’do not
put yourselves in danger by your own hands’’ in the verse
2/195.
Hz.
Rasul of Allah has
not joined the funeral salat of a person who has committed suicide and said ‘’the funeral
salat of a person
who has committed suicide is not performed’’.
As a body whose life has been given an end in this manner
is deprived of the
advantages brought along by the funeral salat…
In the criminal law helping another for committing suicide is a
crime which should be punished heavily.
Yes,
of course there are lots of things to be said about this,
however there
are also lots of reasons that connect one to this universe.
Ýstanbul-
April
25th
2001
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