The ones
who do
not want
to live
alone,
who want
to be
protected
and to
live the
rest of
their
lives in
this
manner,
who want
to find
solutions
to their
problems
believe
deeply
that it
is
necessary
to have
strong
bonds
with
someone
(they
are very
careful
about
this and
place
much
importance.)
In this
manner
they
correct
the
things
that are
not
going
well in
their
lives
and
bring
the
matters
that
have
become
muddled
to light.
The
question
that
comes to
the mind
is : To
be tied
(establish
strong
bonds),
but with
whom?
This
should
be
determined
correctly.
The
important
thing is
to be
able to
evaluate
the
information
in
connection
with
this. To
be able
to reach
the
correct
ideas
from the
available
data.
Meanwhile,
among us
there
are some
individuals
who say
‘’I
do not
have any
bonds (ties),
I do not
interfere
with
other
people’s
affairs
and I do
not want
anyone
to
interfere
with
mine.’’
This is
totally
a wrong
type of
behaviour.
If,
anyone
wants to
establish
strong
bonds,
then he
should
start
from the
right
point
and make
his
steps
very
carefully,
but he
should
think
for a
long
time
regarding
the
person
to whom
he will
be
directing
himself.
Everybody
knows
that the
individual
with
whom one
is going
to
establish
strong
bonds
should
display
a clear
and
simple
attitude
which
should
not be
argued.
That
person
should
not
create paradoxes
as well.
He
should
not go
into
arguments.
As a
result,
he
should
have a
deep (vast,
boundless)
knowledge,
culture
that
will be
useful
to check
and
supervise
the
whole
society
and
correct
the
mistakes.
For
example,
a writer
who gets
positive
responses
from his
readers,
all of a
sudden,
embraces
them
even if
he does
not know
them.
His
phones
get
locked
up (receives
so much
calls).
The
willingness
of the
readers
is the
reason
to
establish
a
communication
in
between.
Of
course,
it is
useful
to learn
about
some of
the
details.
At this
stage
there
are some
questions
that may
come to
the mind.
Such
as:-
Are
there
any
disadvantages,
problems
in a
connection
(a bond)
established
without
thinking?
Is it
possible
for one
to
establish
strong
bonds
with
someone
else in
addition
to the person
whom he
believes?
It is
necessary
to
answer
these
questions
carefully.
Today,
the
existence
of the
subjects
which
cannot
be
solved
and
perceived
lead the
individual
to
direct
himself
automatically
to
someone
who is
able to
overcome
these
(who
shows
the way
how to
handle
them).
In
actual
fact, an
individual’s
need to
be
dependent
on
someone,
the need
to take
refuge,
so to
say, arises
from
this.
There
can be
various
types
of
having
strong
bonds,
ties.
For
example,
among us
there
are the
ones who
have
strong
ties
with
their
past and
they go
on
living
in this
manner.
The
majority
of the
society
consists
of
these
people.
Those
who are
among
the
minority
are the
ones who
do not
look
back.
Meanwhile,
we
should
not
forget
the ‘’faithful
people’’
who have
strong
ties
with
their
spouse,
or the
person
with
whom one
is going
to get
married
or a
friend.
The only
activity
that
effects
one’s
life is
his
curiosity
for the
future.
Starting
from
today,
whatever
has been
left
behind
is named
as the
‘’past’’
and the
period
that
hides
one’s
wishes,
dreams
regarding
the long
run is
named as
the ‘’future’’.
This is
the
reason
why the
individual,
in his
mind,
establishes
a bridge
between
his past
and the
future
and
makes a
self
criticism
(he
judges
himself).
‘’Almost
everybody
makes
such a
self
criticism.’’
These
are the
different
points
with
which we
make
connections.
In
relation
with
this
anything
that has
to be
done is
taken
into
consideration
and the
cause
and
effect
relations
are
established.
The one
who
cannot
question
his past
cannot
reach
the
present
day and
he
cannot
start
any
activity
concerning
the
future
as well.
In my
opinion,
such
approaches
make it
more
clear
and
obvious
the
correctness
of this
concept
named as
bonds/
ties/
connections.
However,
if one
finds
satisfaction
only
with the
past,
then it
is
almost
impossible
to pass
over to
the
further
stages
and
catch
the new
dreams.
Being
free
does not
mean to
be
without
any
bonds,
ties and
live
alone.
The
connection
with the
essence
starts
with the
beats of
the
heart.
The
heart
nourishes
and
supports
the
brain
both
spiritually
and
physicallly
and the
brain
informs
the
individual
who he
really
is.
Stepping
into
mysticism
starts
with the
Word
of
Oneness
(Kalimat-it
Tawhid).
According
to this
everything
becomes
one
single
thing
and one
single
thing
becomes
everything.
When
summarized
the
origin,
the
reality-
the
connection
point,
the
binding
point-
of most
of the
things
is one.
Our
destiny
is
related
to what
we are
living
and it
becomes
manifest
as fate/‘’taqdir’’.
Behind
every
event
there is
the flow
of the
existence-the
sign of
the
connnection,
binding.
This is
how
happiness
is
experienced.
The
happiness
forms
the
harmony
and the
harmony
forms
the
connections.
That is
how the time
changes.
It
exists
or
becomes
non
existent.
The
night
follows
the day.
There
is a
hidden
bond, a
connection
between
the two
as well
as secrets
which
cannot
be
understood.
The
possessors
of data
(the
esteemed
individuals
who have
reached
certitude)
understand
and
evaluate
these.
As I
have
said
before,
there is
nothing
without
any
bonds,
connections.
Everywhere
is full
and
related
to one
another.
Everyone
says
something,
but the
most
meaningful
ones are
put into
words by
those
who have
the
closest,
strongest
bond,
connection. |