When we
eat
something
together
with
friends
or drink
our
coffee,
the
conversation
usually
goes
around
and
eventually
gets
involved
in a
gossip
or it
comes to
the
daily
routine
chores
and
whoever
has the
strength
or
enough
breath,
talks
and
talks
about
them as
much as
he can.
It
doesn’t
matter
who is
listening
to these
matters
or how
interested
they are,
what
kind of
reaction
they are
going to
give,
during
the
conversation
whether
their
eyes are
glowing
or not,
narrowing
or not,
frowning
or not.
Anybody
can talk
but they
have
never
come out
of their
own
world.
The
reason
is,
there is
not any
matter –
any
issue
that is
important
enough
to even
fill up
a nut
shell or
that
will
create
any
interest.
Usually,
this is
the
general
state of
the
contemporary
people
When
there
are
issues
that
will
draw
one’s
attention
and if
they
remain
ambiguous,
only a
few
people
will
consider
asking
any
questions
to
get more
information
about
the
matter.
May be
it might
sound
odd but
it is a
must to
ask a
question
in order
not to
get
carried
away
with any
optimism
or
pessimism.
By using
this
feature,
it is
possible
to
eliminate
the
problems
and
make a
progress.
Such an
attitude
brings
the
ability
to find
a common
ground
in the
discussed
matter.
One who
thinks
“If I
ask a
question
now,
it
would
be
absurd”
doesn’t
do
anything
but
maintain
an
unsolvable
situation.
A human
being
finds a
“clue”
in his
question
and
starting
from
there,
he
decodes
all the
complexities
within
the
context
and
brings
them to
light.
In fact,
Allah’s
Rasul
(s.a.v),
in this
matter,
says
“A
question
is the
half of
the
knowledge”.
Quran
–el
Karim
also
commands
that
human
beings
should
ask
questions.
It also
demands
them to
be
inquirers.
If a
person
is not
repeating
someone
else’s
speech (if
his
speech
is
original),
he will
certainly
meet
people
who turn
their
attention
to him –inquirers.
A
mentality
that can
approach
the
subject
with a
clear
and
coherent
question,
attracts
attention
among
the
audience
as much
as the
lecturer,
even
more.
He even
becomes
the most
important
guest of
that
group.
The
reason
is, this
person
“has
become
the
inquirer,
he has
valued
the
lecturer,
he has
appreciated
the
speech
and he
could
catch
some
details”(he
could go
down
to some
of
the
details).
Whereas,
some,
while
they are
apt to
understand
some of
the
things
mentioned,
avoid
asking
questions
“due
to their
shyness”.
They are
scared
of being
treated
as
nobodies.
They
don’t
want to
be seen
as
ordinary
men or
be
humiliated.
With
these
manners,
they
will be
driven
away
from
learning
the
truth.
Until he
asks
himself
“what
kind of
a
question
shall I
direct?”,
the
conversation
flows,
goes on
to
another
subject
and
covers
the
previous
one.
I also
would
like to
mention
another
group of
people
who “never
ask
questions/who
never
question”,
i.e. “ignorant
people”.
They can
never
set
themselves
free
from the
distressing
situations
they are
in.
When
simple
speeches
are
given if
no
questions
are
asked,
then
this indicates
that the
things
that are
being
told are
the
repetitions
of
someone
else’
words,
ideas.
When a
lecturer
realizes
that
there
are
unclear
parts in
his
speech,
he pulls
himself
together
and
creates
a
different
mood for
himself,
and pays
extra
attention
to his
forthcoming
answers.
This act
is also
an
indication
of the
respect
that he
feels
for the
person
who
asked
the
question.
Another
remarkable
thing is
that
absolutely
not a
single
sound
comes
out from
a
community
under
pressure
(everyone
remains
silent).
If,
there is
no urge
(a real,
strong
wish) for
enlightenment,
then
this
person
who is
asking
the
question
will be
left in
a
difficult
situation.
Moreover,
to
bring
unrelated
things
to the
conversation
for the
sake of
presenting
oneself
as an extraordinary
person,
but in
the end
to make
others
think
that
there is
no
correlation
between
the two
subjects,
is
almost
an
expression
of
incapability.
It is
important
to point
out the
matters
people
are
curious
about
and
explain
the
things
other
participants
can also
get
benefit
from.
See,
these
types of
questions
are very
valuable.
However,
there
are some
who open
up their
mouth
just to
satisfy
their
curiosity.
Obviously,
these
types of
attempts
are not
taken
into
consideration
in terms
of
knowledge.
Whereas
some
intimate
conversations
are more
towards
the
individual’s
privacy.
Religion
forbids
asking
this
type of
questions.
If an
answer
is to be
given,
it will
be
hurtful
as well
as
realistic.
It
wouldn’t
be appropriate
to do
such a
thing,
that is,
to put
the said
person
in this
position
and push
him to
tell the
truth.
Moreover,
it also
would
hurt and
upset
the
person
who will
give the
answer..
If, we
need to
give an
advice
to
contribute
to the
upbringing
of the
current
and
future
generations,
that
would be to lead
them and
encourage
them to
ask high
quality
questions.
Yes,
today’s
young
generation
should
read
carefully
and when
they are
puzzled(unable
to
perceive),
they
should
be able
to ask
questions
to whom
they can
trust in
a well
behaved
manner.
Enlightened
days can
only be
reached
with
this
approach.
It
shouldn’t
be
forgotten
that
the main
factor
behind
the
confidence
of a
community
and
behind
its
efforts
for
progress
is the
determination
and the
ability
in
asking
questions.
A human
being
has
always
become
an
inquirer
every
time he
was
stuck
and made
himself
stronger
by
getting
the
information
he
needed.
One who
can ask
a good
question,
as we
have
mentioned
before,
is a
civilized
and
reputable
person.
It
wouldn’t
be wise
to blunt
this
ability.
A person,
who asks
useful
questions,
improves
in such
a short
period
of time
that
makes
others
surprised.
He sets
the
foundation
of the
knowledge.
Now, he
is far
from
where he
used to
be.
A human
being
will
overcome
his
current
difficulties
with the
help of
his
questions
as he
has
done
tens of
thousands
of years
before.
It is
definitely
beneficial
for him
to think
in this
manner. |