(Metaphorically this
is named the armchair illness)
Not in
everybody, but in some people there is the armchair illness
which is very significant. Such a state of mind is not like
an ordinary illness. It is like the epilepsy and the crisis
comes from time to time at different intervals. You may think
that you have saved yourself from the armchair, but still you
find yourself sitting in it. For this reason it looks quite
difficult to get saved from the armchair (status) obsession.
If, the subject of the illness is sufism, then the
individual feels as if his authorization is endless and he
lives as he wishes, does whatever he likes with the idea ‘’no
one can judge me’’.
If, the individuals have such a disorder, then those who are
directed towards them and who accept them as leaders without
making any investigation suffer from the illness of
uncertainty and they do not have any principles.
As
you would appreciate there are many events going on around
which are a good example for this.
For example, the person is considerably poor, he lacks
knowledge, he is totally ignorant, does not have any social
life, but when he hears about the armchair/the status, then he
becomes very eager and jumps over it. Moreover, he thinks
that he is the only one who deserves this position.
What a contradiction? What a confusion in the mind and the
reasoning mechanism?
It
is hard to explain.
The opposite may happen too. One can be reach, cares about
his benefits, he is interested in individualistic (egotistic)
behaviour, but all of a sudden you can see that he also has
the armchair illness (the obsession for a status).
Another one does not have the slightest idea about mysticism,
he plays tricks on others, but as we have said without any
reason this illness comes out into the open in this
individual.
IT
shouldn’t be forgotten that to be having that specific
position does not mean ‘’I
can do everything. No one can interfere with what I am doing.
There is no one greater than me.
His time has passed, even the
time of so and so.’’
Such an idea belongs to those who have not deserved to have
such a status, such a position and in the end they’ll not be
able to make up for these mistakes.
Only the one who has fallen into a sleep of heedlessness and
who wants to get totally lost may use these statements full
of nonsense.
Afterwards, they try hard to prove their righteousness, but
their efforts fail. People blame them, say and write many
things against them. As you know, there is a mystical
saying ‘’On this road many
heads are cut off and no
one asks about them’’.
So, this statement is the verbalised form of the above
mentioned point; being unable to assimilate, to absorb the
knowledge.
In
short, if one of the candidates who has jumped forward has
much desire to have a position, a status, then he should know
how to take over responsibilities, his behaviour should be
stable and he should leave aside the commercial mentality s
quickly as possible. The masks of those are bound to fall
off who shout at the people who are directed towards them,
who cannot answer the questions fully and completely and who
make these people uneasy.
Moreover, the
individual cannot have the armchair/the status/ position by
inheritance. Those who think in such a way end up end up in
total dissapointment.
Another important point is that the other people should
approve that the said individual deserves that status,
position. Otherwise, his reign is bound to become shaky.
There is an old saying ‘’The
one who does not ride a horse properly is bound to come down
quickly.’’ When we say that this saying is used
for the ones like the above mentione people we wouldn’t be
mistaken.
My
dear friends,
With all my good will I would like to end my wiritng with the
following suggestions:-
I
wish that you do not get caught in this illness, the obsession
for status, position (namely the armchair illness) which goes
beyond the identity of a true human being. If, you have such
a problem, then take the necessary precautions from the
beginning or find a an expert and get his advice and make use
of this opportunity.
Otherwise, know that there will be much more confusion in
your mind.
May you remain with love and may you be entrusted to Allah.